Monday, January 01, 2007

Autism awareness

Note: Today's post is not in the least bit funny or peculiar. It's placed on the pages of blogdom to raise further awareness for the need of more education and action when it comes to raising autistic children.
As a person who has Asperger's Syndrome, a variation of high-functioning autism, I was shaken to the core of my being when I read the following story on AOL News, courtesy of the AP.
Toddler Found Playing Along Interstate (AP)
INDIANAPOLIS (Dec. 31) - Drivers swerved cars and trucks into other lanes to avoid a 3-year-old boy, wearing only a diaper and T-shirt, who was playing along a busy highway after wandering away from home while his mother slept, police said.
Some motorists stopped along Interstate 465 on the city's west side Saturday to take care of the boy until officers arrived, the Indiana State Police said. Damon Dyer, a 3-year-old autistic boy, was found playing on [the]Interstate...
"I looked up and I seen this little ... boy running down the middle of the slow lane in the interstate. I just could not believe what I was seeing," said Troy Crady, one of those who stopped to help. The boy... was unscathed as at least a half-dozen cars and a tractor-trailer rig swerved into other lanes to avoid him. Temperatures were in the mid 50s as the boy ran around barefooted.
Police said they traced the toddler to an apartment at a nearby complex, where they found his mother, Nancy Dyer asleep in a filthy apartment and his 2-year-old sister eating spaghetti off the floor. Dyer, 33, was arrested on two counts of child neglect and remained in custody Sunday, officials said.
Senior State Trooper Cedric Merritt said that when Dyer was told of her son's activities, she responded: "Oh, he got out again." (Really??? You noticed? NO KIDDING!)
Investigators said the boy got out his second-story apartment, went down stairs and got around a fence to reach the highway about 200 yards away. Child Protective Services took the boy and his sister into custody, and investigators said the agency also had been called to the apartment Thursday because the boy was outside unsupervised.


Clearly, some people just aren't fit to be parents in the first place, regardless of the child's condition. But obviously, little Damon's condition was previously diagnosed, and as such, Nancy should have taken additional steps to ensure the safety and well-being of her child. You can't NOT child-proof your home or fall asleep when you have an autistic individual in your care!
Autism is a condition which affects thousands, perhaps even millions, of people in the US. While some cases are more severe than others, autistic folks cannot operate on the same level as those who are not. Being autistic is like being enclosed in a dark closet, knowing there is a world outside, but not knowing how to open the door. As such, even when moving about in the wide-open world, autistics are not able to discern those surroundings properly. They require extra care and attention, something Ms. Dyer was evidently unwilling to give.

For more on finding out about autism, what's being done to combat it and what you can do, please go to www.cureautismnow.org.

3 comments:

Sariah said...

Thank you for bringing this to our attention. I'm really upset at the so-called mother in this story, but am never sure what to do other than be angry. However, I can visit the website you gave and learn and perhaps do something in a more broad sense.

One of the kids in the marching band I worked with in Nevada has Asberger's. Sometimes he could be a real challenge, but it was always a blessing to be around him and his own mother. I learned a lot from them.

Sweet Lulu said...

Hello, I found this blog through The Big Question. I live near where this happened, and thought I would put a little info out there...Damon is not autistic. I think that was just something that a police officer said, and the media ran with it. It is not true. Not that it makes much of a difference, it was still a terrible thing that happened.

Maddy said...

A little late in the day, but I came here after a google search.
I know it must seem bizarre that an autistic child was in this dangerous position and it is hard for people to understand.
I can tell you that it is quite common for autistic children being little Houdinis. I have 4 children ,2 of them are autistic, but only one is determined to 'escape.' We have locks on every door as well as triggers that sound an alarm. There is nothing he can't climb out of.
we have been working on this 'issue' forever, because obviously you want the child to learn to remain safe indepentently [we may be nearly there because he's growing older] but I would never really trust that it might not happen again. That probably sounds unduly harsh, but they can regress unexpectedly and you just can't be too careful.
Sorry I'll get off my soap box now.
Best wishes